The problem that most guys have is that they don't understand women and thus have no clue to be what they want (hint: asking them directly and following suit will not work).
However, this article [askmen.com] says in two pages exactly what is expected for men to be datable. Women wont ever willingly admit that the jerk attatude attracts them, but most of us sensitive guys have seen this occur first hand.
And, when meeting someone new, the key will always be confidence. You can wear a clown suit, but if you are clam, witty and confident, then it wont make a difference.
Actually, the article you referenced makes exactly the point I thought of when I read your post: it's not the fact that they're jerks that attracts women, it's that they're confident and oozing testosterone. You make a similar point in your second paragraph when you say that confidence is what makes a difference.
Most so called "sensitive guys" (no, it's not a personal attack) are whiny wimpy doomats. If I was a woman I wouldn't have any interest in them either. Be assertive, project inner strength and try t
"It is easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
-- Alfred Adler
A simplier guide (Score:2)
And, when meeting someone new, the key will always be confidence. You can wear a clown suit, but if you are clam, witty and confident, then it wont make a difference.
Re:A simplier guide (Score:2)
You make a similar point in your second paragraph when you say that confidence is what makes a difference.
Most so called "sensitive guys" (no, it's not a personal attack) are whiny wimpy doomats. If I was a woman I wouldn't have any interest in them either. Be assertive, project inner strength and try t