1) Take care of your appearance, which means go to the gym and make sure that even if you have a gut, that it's at least obvious that you're someone who cares about your health and appearance. People are naturally wary of dating those who don't appear to take any pride in their appearance and health.
2) Don't assume that having a vagina means having no brain. Just because most girls are breeding stock, doesn't mean that there aren't plenty of girls who aren't. Some of the ones that seem to be breeding stock
That's really good advice, but best of all IT WORKS. I'm a geek who couldn't get laid at college, but am now in my 30's and have had lasting relationships with some very good looking and intelligent women. I'm currently in a steady relationship with a very cute girl who's 13 years younger than me and has a degree in design.
Sometimes not having a girlfriend can be despairing, but work on yourself and someone great might come into your life.
You are not Mr. Party Duuuuude who makes women wet with his handsome, charming, irresponsible, spontaneous, manipulative, deceitful appeal.
You are Mr. Right. Or at least you will be when you have a steady job and lots of money.
Girls don't want sex with you. They want meaningless sex with Stiffler until they decide they want a husband. Then they want your wallet, your wisdom, your maturity, and your emotional supportiveness (which comes naturally from years of private deal-making... "If I had a girl, I'
Wrong. According to the Dating Design Patterns web site I'm:
Half Bad Boy Plus Protocol: Structuring one's appeal based on equal parts considerate gentlemanly attributes and "bad boy" behavior or facade.
So I'm "Mr Right" - sensitive, caring, well-paid, mature, but also a pagan biker with long hair, wears leathers and owns two motorbikes (not mid-life crisis, been biking for years). I'm the one who wants to go to the sleazy goth clubs!
You know how to get a girl? (Score:5, Insightful)
2) Don't assume that having a vagina means having no brain. Just because most girls are breeding stock, doesn't mean that there aren't plenty of girls who aren't. Some of the ones that seem to be breeding stock
Re:You know how to get a girl? (Score:2)
Sometimes not having a girlfriend can be despairing, but work on yourself and someone great might come into your life.
Recipe for geek success with women: get older (Score:1, Insightful)
You are Mr. Right. Or at least you will be when you have a steady job and lots of money.
Girls don't want sex with you. They want meaningless sex with Stiffler until they decide they want a husband. Then they want your wallet, your wisdom, your maturity, and your emotional supportiveness (which comes naturally from years of private deal-making... "If I had a girl, I'
Re:Recipe for geek success with women: get older (Score:2)
Half Bad Boy Plus Protocol: Structuring one's appeal based on equal parts considerate gentlemanly attributes and "bad boy" behavior or facade.
So I'm "Mr Right" - sensitive, caring, well-paid, mature, but also a pagan biker with long hair, wears leathers and owns two motorbikes (not mid-life crisis, been biking for years). I'm the one who wants to go to the sleazy goth clubs!